Your guy has been talking about taking you home and you are also tempted to accept him offer. But you are holding back because you are not sure whether the sparks between the two of you are love or lust. You are interested in a serious, long-term relationship and want to avoid getting involved with a guy who is only interested in your body and having sex with you.
So how do you go about deciding whether the relationship between you is love or whether there is only lust in his (and to a certain extent in your) brain. There are certain pointers that can help you determine this.
The first point of identification is in the way your boyfriend looks at you and reacts when you meet up. If he smiles genuinely and his entire body language conveys extreme pleasure at your arrival, he is seriously interested in being with you and loves you. But if his smile his fake and his eyes are roaming all over your body, his only interest is in taking you to bed at the earliest.
A guy with lust in his mind will try to touch your body, especially your waist, upper back, and breasts at every opportunity possible. He would not be interested in holding your hand or walking with you along the beach. These are all things that a guy will do when he really loves you. He would find pleasure in your company more than anything and want to spend as much time with you as possible.
While he would invite you home, he would never insist on it if you refuse. Rather, he would let the relationship develop along its own course and give you all the time and space you need to fall in love with him. If your boyfriend is serious about you, he will think about small things to do that would bring a smile to your face; he would call you up 10 times a day just to hear your voice.
If you have already taken the jump and have started a physical relationship with your boyfriend, he will still give you indications of what he feels towards you. When it is only lust, your boyfriend would only want to jump into bed with you every time you meet. There would be no thought of sitting and talking with you hearing what you have to say. And once sex is over, he will be just as quick to leave.
On the other hand, if your boyfriend is seriously in love with you, he will be in no hurry about making love to you. He will talk sweet nothings and spend as much time as possible with you. He will introduce you to his family and friends and make plans that revolve around you. For him you would be the most important person in the world.
Pay close attention to these indicators and you will soon know whether it is love or lust.
So how do you go about deciding whether the relationship between you is love or whether there is only lust in his (and to a certain extent in your) brain. There are certain pointers that can help you determine this.
The first point of identification is in the way your boyfriend looks at you and reacts when you meet up. If he smiles genuinely and his entire body language conveys extreme pleasure at your arrival, he is seriously interested in being with you and loves you. But if his smile his fake and his eyes are roaming all over your body, his only interest is in taking you to bed at the earliest.
A guy with lust in his mind will try to touch your body, especially your waist, upper back, and breasts at every opportunity possible. He would not be interested in holding your hand or walking with you along the beach. These are all things that a guy will do when he really loves you. He would find pleasure in your company more than anything and want to spend as much time with you as possible.
While he would invite you home, he would never insist on it if you refuse. Rather, he would let the relationship develop along its own course and give you all the time and space you need to fall in love with him. If your boyfriend is serious about you, he will think about small things to do that would bring a smile to your face; he would call you up 10 times a day just to hear your voice.
If you have already taken the jump and have started a physical relationship with your boyfriend, he will still give you indications of what he feels towards you. When it is only lust, your boyfriend would only want to jump into bed with you every time you meet. There would be no thought of sitting and talking with you hearing what you have to say. And once sex is over, he will be just as quick to leave.
On the other hand, if your boyfriend is seriously in love with you, he will be in no hurry about making love to you. He will talk sweet nothings and spend as much time as possible with you. He will introduce you to his family and friends and make plans that revolve around you. For him you would be the most important person in the world.
Pay close attention to these indicators and you will soon know whether it is love or lust.
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